Along with this information will be special guests from greatest minds in the United States to share their expert research and thoughts on this very important subject that each person needs to be aware of.
#Breaking radio silence how to
“Breaking the Silence” will also feature information from the professional and medical field that will dive into the important research involving Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and how to build Resiliency in yourself and in your children. Williams will also feature special guests that have their own personal stories of overcoming obstacles in their lives and becoming victors instead of victims. Williams will not only discuss his own personal journey of overcoming the darkness of years of horrific sexual child abuse in the hands of his father and his father’s friends, but Dr. Gregory Williams” radio program will offer the listeners a Road Map to Hope each and every week with keys to discover within yourself that ray of light to make your day better and brighter. Now is the time for you to step out of your own personal darkness and break the silence that has been hidden and closed up inside of you. Makes sense.“Breaking the Silence with Dr. It does suck to know that she probably doesn't even have passing thoughts about me though. Why would I want to be friends with someone who's demonstrated so little care for me? What kind of "friendship" is it if you use me as backup emotional support while you solidify your new relationship? What kind of friendship is it when I'm supposed to be available for you on a moment's notice, but you ignore me for days and then get back to me with a snide comment about how you couldn't with him around but you'd love to talk now?Ī real friend, someone who actually cared about me wouldn't have driven me out of something I loved because she was too selfish to give it up when she knew how much more it meant to me than her. I think the way my ex left me showed none of the love of an actual friendship, so an offer or desire to be friends on her part seemed pretty disingenuous. It depends on how things end to some extent. Outside of the kids we have zero reason to be, because we share nothing in common beyond our kids. I'm friendly with my ex-husband, but we aren't friends. Were they saying you're friends with all of your exes or was someone-I don't know who they is-saying that about themselves? Regardless, if both parties mutually agree to break up there can be friendship. Likewise with me.īeing friends with all one's exes I think is just an unrealistic standard. My husband has two other ex-wives and third cheating ex that he basically told me once he would be content to never see again. She married someone else, my husband is friends with both of them, we all get along great. But they're both artists who work in the medium, and they were over each other and back to being friends long before I ever came on the scene. See I know only one person who is friends with one ex and that's my husband. I'm just wondering because they all told me: "I'm friends with all of my exes" and I started wondering today for whatever reason. I've moved on big time (moved countries, dating someone new. You deserve to be present in the here and now, moving on with your life, and finding those people who you gladly maintain a relationship with for the rest of your lives. Hoping that an ex will sit up and notice it's been years since you spoke to them or were present to be found is a colossal waste of your valuable time.
I think your time is better spent focusing on healing and moving forward. I don't want or need them in my life, because I have truly moved on, healed and have better in my life now. Truth be told, I don't want to be visible or findable to any of my exes dumper or dumpee alike.
There is no reason on earth and a whole lot of bad ones to remain in touch or visible to an ex. Breakups happen for a reason-the relationship was broken.Īs to radio silence for years, well yeah they had better do that. I also wonder that about childhood friends and old coworkers. Man why didn't I dump him and date that cute guy that was my girlfriend's brother instead?" Occasionally I might wonder whatever happened to that boy in high school or so and so that I dated. I will wonder things like, "I hope he got therapy and isn't rotting somewhere in prison." (Abusive ex) More often though thoughts just go towards the angle of "Ugh, I had a relationship like that once.